Born in Nebraska, Alex entered the world as a healthy-looking baby, bringing immense joy to her parents. But only two months later, her family received devastating news that changed everything. Doctors discovered that something was terribly wrong with her brain development.
Alex was diagnosed with hydranencephaly, a rare neurological condition that affects the way a baby’s brain forms before birth, leaving doctors unsure of how long she might live.
In Alex’s extraordinary case, she was born without a functioning brain. Her father explained that only a tiny piece — about the size of half a pinky finger — remains in the back of her cerebellum.
Doctors gave her parents, Shawn and Lorena Simpson, an incredibly grim outlook. They were told their daughter would likely not live to see her fifth birthday, and that each day they had with her would be a gift.
When asked by KETV what they believe helped their daughter survive so long, Shawn and Lorena didn’t hesitate — they said it all came down to love, faith, and never giving up hope.
Reflecting on the journey, Shawn shared: “Twenty years ago we were scared, but faith, I think, is really what kept us alive.”
“You can see that when I went up there and talked to her a little bit ago, she was looking for me,” Shawn explained, noting how she seems to respond to his presence even without words or touch.
Her younger brother, SJ, agrees. He described how deeply connected Alex seems to be with the emotions of those around her, saying: “Say somebody’s stressed around her. Nothing will even happen — it could be completely silent — but Alex will know. She’ll feel something.”
“It was terrible to not know if she was going to make it through the night,” Lorena told the Daily Mail, recalling how she often stayed awake just to make sure Alex was still alive.
“So for three years, I would sleep with her, making sure that she’s breathing, making sure that she’s moving.”
Speaking around the same time, Shawn expressed his hope that people would see beyond Alex’s disability and understand how much value her life truly holds.
He said: “A lot of people think she’s just a vegetable, and we have heard tons of negative comments.”
